In the days to follow my arrival I spent lots of my time getting to know people. This meant having to give a small introduction of myself to my co-workers and being introduced to numerous people. Most of their names I forget within minutes of meeting them. It was probably the result of the heat and stress of a new situation.
Before I continue I should say that Hokkaido is normally cold or cooler, but for some reason this year’s summer was filled with a lot more heat then usual. This made my first few days tough as I had no cell phone, internet or car and I only had a bike to get around. Plus my house does not have air conditioner as the weather is not hot long enough to warrant one? I thought I could tough it out for a few days and see how the weather developed. When it was not getting any cooler I went and bought a fan, I think it was one of the best purchases I had made during my time here as it meant I could survive in my house.
It was a struggle at first, as the euphoria of arriving in a new place started to wear off and I was caught in the reality that I was going to be here for a long time and there was no one around that I really knew or could speak with I got lonely. But I thought to myself that once I got more settled I would like the place more. An also the people that I lived around were very nice, so it was not like I was living around people who were mean.
Also my predecessor told me about a restaurant in town that served Italian food and spoke English. I think I went there on my 2nd or 3rd day and found my new second home in my town. It is a family restaurant run by a couple, who has two children. They are so kind and inviting. I felt like they were my Japanese family within the first few minutes of getting there. It is hard to put into words, but they just felt welcoming. I think I spent 2-3 hours there the first day talking to them and other customers that would come in. An at the end when I was going to leave the wife gave me a peach and said see you again, I felt happy and realized my stay in Japan wouldn’t be that bad.
During the first weekend in Shimokawa there was a small festival that my co-worker invited me to. It was fun to finally start getting to meeting people. My boss would introduce me to one person and from that person I would be introduced to more people. I think I got offers of free accommodations in Sapporo and free hair cut offers. Plus the usual free food that people seem to like buying me. One of them was cute, as she did not speak English well and my Japanese was not well, so she worried we could not be friends because of our lack of language ability. I told her of course we could be friends and not to worry about the language ability.
While at the festival I met one of my students, and he speak fairly good English so with the help of my dictionary we were able to have a conversation. I learnt that he was from Nagano and he was a ski jumper. He had come to my town to train for skiing jumping and he lived in a dorm. I thought that was pretty amazing thing to do at such a young age. When most people in Japan seem to leave home after they get married. This was a student who wanted to improve something he was good at, so at the young age of 16 he moved away from home. But I think it is good he did it turn high school, as he can then meet people easily. I told him, that if he made the Olympics in 2010 (Vancouver) that I could help to give him a tour. I really hope to see him there, as I have never cheered for someone that I knew on TV.
I included some photos of the festivals and my first few weeks in Japan.